Finding Your Person

Ahhh, yes we all want it, we may all have it but we don’t realize they’re there.  Sometimes it takes us days, sometime weeks, sometimes even years to find your person.  It doesn’t necessarily have to be a romance we’re talking about, it could just mean your best friend.  You know, the person you go to with every situation, every heartbreak, every milestone, every “thing” that occurs in your life.  That person is the one who sees the good in the bad, the right in the wrong, and the yes in the no.  They are the one who always has your best interest at heart. 

It is imperative we all find our person.  When you’re self-doubting or life changing something, you need that person around to help bounce you in and out of reality.  You know at the end of the day it does not matter what kind of crazy idea you have come up with that they love you and accept you for it but even better, they help you plan it out. 

So who is your person? Have you acknowledged that they are your person? Do you thank them for being in your life and for being your person? Don’t waste your time on those who cultivate negative pressure on you or shut down your ideas or the “Debbie downers” of the parties.  You need to surround yourself by positive people and people who want to be in your life and want to make you feel like you.  We don’t need those people who bring us down and make us seem our possible is now impossible.  Find your person.  Look them up, take a moment and really find your person, you may even be lucky and find out your person is you.

“A friend is one who knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.” William Shakespeare