Has Love been Lost

We are constantly searching for this perfect love. The over the top, head over heals, completely ridiculous love.  We often forget about the other kinds of love because we are so focused on that one true love.  We stop loving ourselves and each other.  We forget about love.  Love isn't supposed to be text book perfect.  It is supposed to be messy, hilarious, funny, deep, constant amongst all, love it supposed to be exactly how you want it to be.  We don't need to compare our loves in our lives with others.  We need to just accept the loves that we share and embrace them for their purities and insecurities. 


It is so easy to walk away when things get difficult.  It is less hard for us to forget and move on.  We are so driven on that very first love we felt that when we lose that type of love we get scared.  We try to find that love in others instead of other places.  Love grows, love strengthens and love lasts but only if you do the work and you fight for that love. 


Love is lost in our society.  Instead of loving and accepting others for who they are we are constantly judging them, putting them down, disrespecting one another to feel better about ourselves.  We cannot love others if we do not love ourselves.  Our world is full of too much haters and doubters that we too become like everyone else. 


Stop losing love.  Do not get lost in others that are not loving. Love yourself and love the people who choose to love you for you.  Be honest, be open, be kind, be faithful because one day when we take away all of the love we are left with nothing.