Who's Left to Blame?
Everybody does it. Makes up excuses, blames someone else, twists the situation around until it becomes a blur. eventually that becomes the norm for you. You've stopped making excuses for yourself, you've become entwined with what everyone else should be doing and what it is they didn't do, instead of really noticing what is really happening. It's you. You've changed. You're different.
It is so much easier to look at everyone and blame them for your faults, your mistakes, your should've's. Why bother taking a good look at yourself under a microscope when you can look at everyone else in your microscope? No one wants to take a good long glance at themselves in a mirror and notice all of their faults, their excuses, their bad behaviors; no. It's an easy cheat, blame others for your wrong doings instead of yourself.
Think about your conversations at home, at work, at school or out with friends. Does it usually consist of complaints about yourself? Probably not, most times we are too busy complaining about our co-workers, spouses, friends, family and what they should work on to becoming a better person. That is your first clue. That right there is a big issue that no one seems to point out to you. Is it because they're afraid of what you'll say? Is it because they'll de-friend you on facebook? Is it because you're worried about their response?
First things first, we all have flaws. That is fine. The point of perfection is to have some imperfections. What I am talking about is the fine line of behavioral issues. Are you constantly blaming someone else for their bad behavior? Usually if we dig deep to find answers we get scared and that is why it is much easier to blame those you love around you.
"You must deal with your demons in order to save your angels." -Me
It is so much easier to look at everyone and blame them for your faults, your mistakes, your should've's. Why bother taking a good look at yourself under a microscope when you can look at everyone else in your microscope? No one wants to take a good long glance at themselves in a mirror and notice all of their faults, their excuses, their bad behaviors; no. It's an easy cheat, blame others for your wrong doings instead of yourself.
Think about your conversations at home, at work, at school or out with friends. Does it usually consist of complaints about yourself? Probably not, most times we are too busy complaining about our co-workers, spouses, friends, family and what they should work on to becoming a better person. That is your first clue. That right there is a big issue that no one seems to point out to you. Is it because they're afraid of what you'll say? Is it because they'll de-friend you on facebook? Is it because you're worried about their response?
First things first, we all have flaws. That is fine. The point of perfection is to have some imperfections. What I am talking about is the fine line of behavioral issues. Are you constantly blaming someone else for their bad behavior? Usually if we dig deep to find answers we get scared and that is why it is much easier to blame those you love around you.
"You must deal with your demons in order to save your angels." -Me
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